|
More Employees Finding Romance in the Office
More employees are saying they've been involved in office romances,
and some of them have dated their bosses, according to a survey by Vault
Inc., a media company that focuses on career advancement.
In the survey, 58 percent of employees admitted to having an office
romance, up from 46 percent in an identical Vault survey two years ago.
This year's survey, which included 610 responses from employees, also
found that 14 percent of respondents have dated a boss or superior and
that 19 percent have dated a subordinate.
Regarding trysts within office walls, 23 percent of the respondents
said they've indulged in them, with the office cited as the most common
location, followed by the restroom and the conference room.
Twenty-two percent of respondents reported having met their spouse
or significant other on the job.
In addition, 44 percent of respondents were unsure whether their company
had a policy regarding fraternization, while 39 percent said their company
had no policy.
What can you do to make clear your policy on office romance?
First, develop a clear and unambiguous policy on office relationships
and sexual harassment. Such policies set the tone for what is or is not
acceptable in the workplace. And second, communicate your policy to employees
once developed and periodically thereafter.
A SAMPLE
POLICY – Provided
by Aligned Growth Partners, LLC (
www.alignedgrowth.com)
Personal Relationships in the Work Place
[Company name] is committed to attracting, retaining and developing
talented colleagues. In doing so, we realize that we may encounter situations
regarding the employment of relatives, or colleagues who may be involved
in a dating relationship or may be related. Therefore, to ensure that
there is no appearance of a conflict of interest, relatives or colleagues
in dating relationships or direct or indirect supervisory relationship
may not occupy positions that will require them to work directly for
or supervise the other colleague.
[Company name] reserves the right to reassign a colleague should an
actual or potential conflict of interest arises involving relatives or
colleagues involved in a dating relationship or a potential supervisory
relationship. For purposes of this policy, a relative is any person who
is related by blood or marriage, including domestic partners, whose relationship
with the colleague is similar to that of persons who are related by blood
or marriage.
Sexual and Other Unlawful Harassment
Every [company name]
colleague is entitled to a work environment free from harassment. [Company
name] is committed to providing a work place that is free from all
forms of discrimination. Any conduct that can be considered harassing,
coercive, or disruptive, including sexual harassment or harassment
based on a colleague’s gender, race, age, religion,
national origin, physical or mental disability, sexual orientation,
or any other characteristic protected by law, is strictly
prohibited. Harassment in any form, including actions, words, jokes,
or comments based on an individual's race, color, religion, sex, national
origin, pregnancy, citizenship, ancestry, military veteran status,
gender, marital status, age, physical or mental disability, medical
condition, and sexual orientation, or any other legally protected characteristic
will not be tolerated. [Company name] provides information
and ongoing sexual harassment training annually to all colleagues to
ensure that you work in an environment that is free of sexual and other
unlawful harassment.
Sexual harassment is defined as unwanted sexual advances, or visual,
verbal, or physical conduct of a sexual nature. This definition includes
many forms of offensive behavior and includes gender-based harassment
of a person of the same sex as the harasser. The following is a partial
list of sexual harassment examples:
- Unwelcome or unwanted sexual advances;
- Offering employment benefits in exchange for sexual
favors;
- Making or threatening reprisals after a negative response
to sexual advances;
- Visual conduct that includes leering, making sexual
gestures, or displaying of sexually suggestive objects
or pictures, cartoons or posters;
- Verbal conduct that includes making or using derogatory
comments, epithets, slurs, or jokes;
- Verbal sexual advances or propositions;
- Verbal abuse of a sexual nature, graphic verbal commentaries
about an individual's body, sexually degrading words used
to describe an individual, or suggestive or obscene letters,
notes, or invitations;
- Physical conduct that includes touching, assaulting,
or impeding or blocking movements; and
- Unwelcome sexual advances (either verbal or physical),
requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical
conduct of a sexual nature constitute sexual harassment
when:
- Submission to such conduct is made either explicitly
or implicitly a term or condition of employment,
or
- Submission or rejection of the conduct is used
as a basis for making employment decisions, or
- Conduct
has the purpose or effect of interfering with work
performance or creating an intimidating, hostile,
or offensive work environment
Retaliation against any colleague for refusing a sexual advance, for
refusing a request, demand or subtle pressure for sexual
favors or activity, or for reporting an incident of possible
harassment to the Company, is strictly prohibited.
Harassment Complaint Procedure
If you have any questions or concerns regarding any type of discrimination
in the work place, you are encouraged to bring these issues to the attention
of [company official].
All allegations of sexual harassment will be taken seriously, and will
receive prompt attention, thorough investigation and appropriate resolution.
Should you believe you have been the subject of harassment of any form,
you are encouraged to file a complaint immediately. To do so, you should
provide a written complaint to [company official] of [company name].Your
complaint should include the details of the incident or incidents, the
names of the individuals involved and the names of any witnesses. Every
effort will be made to keep complaints and investigations confidential
and to disclose information only as needed to investigate and resolve
a complaint.
Anyone engaging in sexual or other unlawful harassment will be subject
to performance counseling, up to and including termination
of employment regardless of position. We ensure you that
you can raise concerns and make reports or complaints without fear of
reprisal, and that [company name] will take appropriate action.
|